THE COST OF GETTING INKED BY THE LIVING LEGEND APO WHANG-OD

Buscalan is a home for the Butbut ethnic group of Kalinga. They are known as the headhunters of the Cordillera Region and this reputation is related to their culture and tradition of tattoos. Although tribal war and headhunting were already long gone, the art of Batok still continues. Batok (Whatok in Butbut dialect) is a way of tattooing in which the mambabatok (tattoo artist) would use lemon thorn as the needle and charcoal soot mixed with water on coconut shell as an ink. When the artist draws the pattern, she would hand poke or hand tap the lemon thorn against the skin to create the permanent ink. This process is painful and quite bloody. This type of tattoos might be scary but people from around the world still flock the small mountain village of Butbut tribe not just to get a tattoo but to personally meet the last and oldest mambabatok, Apo Whang-Od.

Apo Whang-Od was first featured in a 2009 documentary by anthropologist Lars Krutak aired in Discovery Channel. Since then she gets famous while receiving global recognition. Travelers including A-list celebrities would take that long journey to meet her and get tattoos from her. In 2016 her image is exhibited at the Royal Ontario Museum in Canada. She received the prestigious Dangal ng Haraya Award in 2018 and she is on the process of being the National Living Treasures Awardee. Recently, in April 2023 she graced the cover of fashion magazine Vogue Philippines. With all these achievements, Apo Wang-Od remains humble and selfless to her community. Even before she garnered her celebrity status, the cheerful grandma is known to share what she receives from her patrons to her village. In one of Business Insider’s documentary she mentioned that she is grateful that her practice of batok is able to transform the life of the people from her village. She also hopes that even if she will be gone tourists would still continue to come to Buscalan and support them by getting tattoos from her tribe’s new generation. Apo Whang-od is truly not just passionate about her craft but she also makes sure that batok tattoos will not die and continue to thrive. With all that, what are the costs of getting a tattoo from her?

The Cost of Time

The only way to meet her is to travel all the way to Buscalan unless there is an event she is invited which is rare considering her advanced age. The journey starts by taking a bus to Tabuk, Kalinga or Bontoc, Mountain Province. These two routes can take around 10 to 12 hours bus rides. If you choose the Victory Liner Kamias Terminal in Cubao to Tabuk, Kalinga journey, it will guarantee at least 10 hours on a freezing bus. In Tabuk, walk to Saint Williams Cathedral to take the direct vans to Buscalan because they are fastest and you will only need 2 hours travel time. However, sometimes they are not available so the next option would be the bus going to Bontoc. The old fashion bus runs slow and road constructions are along the way. The ride can take 3 hours and 30 minutes to reach barangay Bugnay in Buscalan. From there, ride 20 minutes motorbike (habal-habal) to reach the jump off point where the hike begins. Depending on your speed, the hike on the narrow pathway to Butbut tribe village may take from 30 to 40 minutes. After registration to secure your number for the tattooing and meeting Apo Whang-od you will be asked to wait in your homestay or patiently stand in line while watching her doing tattoos. Mind you, the number given is per group. You could be number 5 but the numbers before you can consist of 10 to 15 people. The waiting time can be 2 hours up to the next day depending on the day of your visit. On the weekends expect that you will wait for the whole day but if you happen to be there on Tuesdays and Wednesdays you can have a chance to get a tattoo immediately and hang out with Apo Wang Od especially if there are no other visitors. To conclude the number of time you need from bus rides to hiking plus waiting time, you may need 24 hours to be right in front of her. Again, this depends on the circumstances, it can be less or more.

The Cost of Pain

Watching Apo Whang-Od do tattoos on the visitors, you can see mixed reactions. Some are obviously in pain while the others calmly take every poke as if they were nothing. Long before this journey, I talked to people who already got their ink from Apo and most of them said it really hurts. They were amazed despite her age her poke is still strong enough to hurt so bad. One of them even stated that she felt her pokes reached her bone on the wrist.

While waiting for my turn, I got a “traveler” design tattoo about 2 inches in diameter from a local villager. The first five minutes of the session was painful about level 4 out of 10. Surprisingly, as time passes my body went numb to the point that I agreed when the artist asked me if I want a second coat of my tattoo. She then commented that I have a high pain tolerance. For reference I already have two inks prior. During the tattoo session with Apo, I got her 3 dots signature on my left wrist. I still feel numb at that time so the level of pain is 2 out of 10. However after that, my whole wrist immediately became swollen. It continued to swell for the whole week with no aftercare as advised by the locals. They just told me to avoid saltwater until it fully recovers. On the other hand another visitor who also got a wrist tattoo from Apo mentioned the level of pain he had was 5 out of 10. Fortunately for him after 3 days he is ready to hit the beach because it seems his wrist recovers faster than mine. Therefore, just like any other tattoos the pain in getting a batok depends on the person’s tolerance, skin and parts of the body where it is located.

The Cost of Money

The rate of Apo’s 3 dots tattoo is not certain especially when you speak to people who got them. Some say they paid ₱150 others ₱500. On my recent travel, Apo charges ₱300 which to be honest is very cheap considering her status. However if you include the travel cost obviously it will be more. To give you an idea here’s the breakdown on how much you will be spending. If you are on a travel agency you can pay a fix rate of all inclusion package. They range from ₱3,500 to ₱7,500 depending on the number of days and side trips to Sagada or Banaue.

If you are on DIY travel, expect to spend more on transportation. Starting with the bus from Manila to Kalinga or Mountain Province this costs from ₱950-₱1,350 so the return bus ride would be ₱2,000- ₱2,700. Transportation to Buscalan ranges from ₱230 if you take the bus or ₱250 if you take the van return ride will be ₱460-₱500. Motorbike ride to the jump off point is ₱150 per person and you will take this same transport going down to catch the bus or jeepney to Tabuk or Bontoc so total of ₱300. Registration fee is ₱100 per individual with a Tour Guide fee from ₱1,000-₱1500 with maximum of 4 people per guide. Their standard rate for every homestays is ₱400 per person a night. Some of them provide free rice and unlimited Buscalan coffee. When it comes to food, it all depends on the guest. Some guests bring their own food since cooking is allowed in homestays. Eateries are also available with decent meals priced at ₱75-₱150. There is no signal in Buscalan so you will be totally disconnected from the outside world. If you want to avail of the wifi, some accommodations provide them for ₱40 an hour or ₱300 a day.

In getting a tattoo, it all depends on the design and the size. They range from ₱500- ₱3,500. You also need to buy your own gisi or thorn needle which cost ₱100. Doing the math an overnight stay in Buscalan to get inked by Apo Whang-od may cost from ₱6,000- ₱8,500. This may vary with the number of people in the group since you can split the cost of the Tour Guide. Food cost is based on one’s consumption the same with tattoo’s rate.

Overall, the cost to meet the living legend Apo Whang-Od is all worth it. One must have the patience for the long journey, tolerance for that pain and some money to cover the expenses. When a visitor has the appreciation of culture and openness to understand other’s tradition that is passed on through generations, you will not only value the body art that you get but also the meaning behind it.

HOW I TRAVELED BOHOL AND CEBU ON A LONG WEEKEND: ITINERARY PLUS BUDGET

I received a call from an old friend living overseas. He’s visiting Cebu with his family and asked me if I am up to catch up over dinner. My eyebrows met as I am confused with his thought that Baguio and Cebu is just two hours away. LOL! I mean, it is two hours away when I fly directly but given the limited schedule of flights, it can also be costly.

I gave it a thought for a minute and agreed in the end because I am a good friend. (Duh!) We checked our schedule and it happened to be a long weekend. However, he will be arriving on Sunday so it means I have two days free. So what am I going to do? Of course the typical me, make the most out of it and travel the neighboring island of Bohol and here’s how I did it.

Exploring Bohol

I personally think two days is not enough to travel this spectacular island. It has a lot of things offer from nature, historical sites, beaches to diving experience. You can never run out of things to do. If you have a limited time the best thing to do is to prioritize what you want. Bohol is famous for its tarsier and Chocolate Hills but it is also a diving haven for underwater enthusiasts.

In going around, there are many options that you can take. One is to book with a travel agency online. There are plenty of them on Facebook and they offer different packages depending on your interest. As for me I availed the “Countryside Tour” it is a day trip joiners package offered by MegaByahe Bohol Tours for ₱1,300. The tour consist of 6 sites with two optional activities. The highlight of this package is the Chocolate Hills and Tarsier Sanctuary with Loboc River Cruise as an option for lunch which I added. I just payed additional ₱ 850 and it ended up to be my favorite experience of the excursion. It is a must thing to do when visiting Bohol.

Another option you can do if you want to save money in doing the countryside tour is to arrange a van joiners transport in you accommodation. It only cost ₱500 and you will be put in a van with other tourists. This fee is only for the transport. Entrance fees and lunch are not included. This is cost efficient since you have the option if you want to skip some sites. It is also a good way to meet and bond with other travelers.

On the other hand if you opt to be more adventurous and travel on your own you can rent a scooter to go around the island for ₱300 a day or make use of the services of the tri cab drivers for ₱1,500 a day. This only includes transport and the driver. Entrance fees will be your own account however the catch is you can travel at your own pace. Most of them are offering this service and here’s one of them I can vouch. Clarito Camingay 0955 407 9081, 0918 543 1696.

Where to Stay in Bohol

The recommended place for accommodation is Panglao. It is not only near the airport but also walking distance to the beaches. The main road is also packed with establishments such as restaurants, stores and tour agencies. At night, the streets lit up for a lively nightlife. From budget hostels to fancy hotels, you can certainly find your preferred place to stay here.

Traveling to Cebu

One thing I love about Bohol is how close it is to Cebu. Going to Cebu can only take two hours via ferry as long as there’s no bad weather condition. Most travelers usually take the Tagbilaran City Tourist Port to Cebu City Port since it is closer to Panglao. The fare ranges from ₱850- ₱ 950. There’s also Tubigon Port to Cebu City path via Fast Cat and Starlite Ferries and they cost from ₱500- 1000 depending on the type of seat. Yes! Ferries in Bohol offer Economy, Business to First Class seat just like airlines. The latter route is mostly taken by locals as Tubigon is farther. It takes more that two hours bus ride from Tagbilaran. Another journey you can consider in going to Cebu is to take off from Momo Beach Panglao to Quartel Beach Oslob. The trip is once daily and costs ₱1,000. This is a convenient way if you are eyeing in going to South Cebu directly. However, according to one of the travelers I talked to, it took her 4 hours on a small boat to reach Oslob. She also added to be prepared with your motion sickness medicine and some advil.

Exploring Cebu

Upon arriving in Cebu you can start by checking out places in Cebu City. Again, you have to prioritize what you want to see or do. Cebu City changed a lot compared to what I saw in 2017. When I opened my GPS, I was surprised that all their public transports shown are buses. They don’t have the jeepneys I used to ride before. I installed “Maxim”, a motorbike ride app for my convenience. It is widely used in Cebu City and way cheaper than Grab or regular taxis. Moving on, here are some places to check out when you are in Cebu City, Magelan’s Cross, Fort San Pedro, Temple of Leah and Cebu Taoist Temple. You can end your day with a food trip in Sugbo Mercado in IT Park.

Since I already traveled most tourists’ spots in Cebu before I chose the place I haven’t been which is Moalboal. I am on time crunch so I seek assistance from travel agency I found on Facebook. I booked with RNL Cebu Travel and Tours and went with their day trip package tour in Moalboal. The itinerary includes traveling to Moalboal for sardines run, sea turtle activity and coral viewing. Then chilling in Lambug beach in Badian and finally going to Mantayupan Falls, the tallest waterfalls in Cebu located in Baliri. This package cost ₱1,599. It includes entrance fees and snorkeling gears but breakfast and lunch are my own account. Another day tour they are offering is Moalboal snorkeling activity then Kawasan canyoneering and Mantayupan Waterfalls. This cost ₱2,800 with inclusion of lunch. They have free hotel pick up in Cebu City and Mandaue and drop off in SM Seaside Cebu City after the trip.

You can also check out this blog for more places to visit in Cebu.

CEBU TRAVEL ADVENTURE: THINGS TO DO IN CEBU

Where to Stay in Cebu

There are abundant accommodations in Cebu catering to all types of travelers. If most of your activities are in the South, it is best to book your accommodation in Oslob or Moalboal for convenience because the traffic going to and from Cebu City is no joke. If you are up for exploring Cebu City better choose your accommodation in Lahug area where it is near visiting sites and transportation. It is also near the airport so it is agreeable on your last day to make sure you will make it to your flight.

Itinerary

*This itinerary is only a sample one for your reference.

Day 1:

Arrival in Bohol.

Check out Panglao (Alona Beach, Momo Beach or Sunset Hermit Beach)

Experience the Nightlife in Main Road

Day 2:

Option 1: Countryside Tour (Chocolate Hills, Tarsier Sanctuary, Man made Forest, Loboc River Cruise, Butterfly Sanctuary, Baclayon Church, Blood Compact Site)

Option 2: Island Hoping Tour

Option 3: Scuba Diving Activity

Day 3:

Travel to Cebu from Tagbilaran City Port

Arrival in Cebu City Port

Cebu City Tour (Magellan’s Cross, Fort San Pedro, Cebu Taoist Temple, Temple of Leah, Sugbo Mercado)

Day 4:

South Cebu Day Trip Tour

Option 1: Moalboal Sardines Run, Swimming with Sea Turtle,and Coral Reef Viewing

  Badian Lambug Beach

  Baliri Mantayupan Falls

Option 2: Moalboal Sardines Run, Swimming with Sea Turtle,and Coral Reef Viewing

   Kawasan Canyoneering and Kawasan Falls

  Baliri Mantayupan Falls

Option 3: Oslob Whale Watching

  Sumilon Island

Option 4: Osmena Peak Hiking

Budget

*Here’s the breakdown of expenses for your reference.

Transportation:

 Manila to Pangalo: ₱1,459 (via Airsia no check in luggage)

Bus from Panglao to Tagbilaran Dau Terminal: ₱ 80

Bus from Tagbilaran to Tubigon Plaza: ₱110

Ferry from Tubigon to Cebu Port: ₱500 (Economy Class via Fast Cat)

Cebu to Manila:     ₱1,459 (via Airasia no check in luggage)

*Tri Cab from airport to Alona: ₱200

*Tric Cab from Panglao to Tagbilaran: ₱400

*Habal-habal less than 4 kilometers: ₱50-70 (depending on your haggling skills)

*Habal-habal from Pangalao-Tagbilaran: ₱250

Accommodation:

Moon Fools Hotel: ₱954 (2 nights at an 8 bed mixed dorm room)

The Teepee Place Hostel and Residence: ₱1,245 (2 nights at 6 bed female dorm room)

Tours:

Bohol Countryside Tour: ₱1,300

Loboc River Cruise: ₱850

South Cebu Day Trip Tour: ₱1,599

Guide on Getting a Tattoo From Apo Whang-od, The Last Mambabatok

Batok ia a hand poke tattoo using pomelo or lemon thorn as a needle and mixed charcoal soot with water in a coconut shell as an ink. The ink is mixed with blood when hand poked against the skin which creates permanent ink on the body. For people from Kalinga this body art is more than just an accessory on the body. It came from the long gone culture of tribal war and head hunting especially for men. In the past when a man comes home victorious from a tribal war, he receives a batok tattoo from a mambabatok (tattoo artist). This represents his strength, bravery and ability. For women, they start getting a tattoo at the age of 12 this represents beauty, wealth and being ready for marriage. The art of getting a batok tattoo includes fortune telling and chanting ritual for good luck done by the mambabatok.

To be a mambabatok is hereditary. It is not a calling for someone who just wants it as they should be from a family of one. It is passed down to their offspring or descendants. Sadly, all the mambabatok already passed away that made the batok tattoo culture almost dead. However, in the mountain village of Buscalan lives a centenarian woman who still practices batok tattoo. She is said to be The Last Mambabatok who paved the way for her culture to continuously thrive in this modern time, Apo Whang-Od. Even though she doesn’t have children she is able to pass down this culture to her grand nieces. She was also able to teach the art of batok tattoing to the new generation of Butbut tribe. Due to her hardwork and passion for her craft she was able to receive numerous awards and was featured to different documentaries, shows even the April 2023 cover of Vogue Philippines Magazine. Having a celebrity status didn’t stop her from being humble and continuously working for her culture to be known all around the world. Despite her age, she still does her signature 3-dots tattoo for people who want to experience batok body art.

I personally look up to her ever since news about her image being displayed in Royal Ontario Museum in 2016. Since then I have been wanting to meet her and get a tattoo from her until recently I took that journey and made it happen. As a result, I compiled a guide on getting inked by the living legend, Apo Whang-Od.

The Journey To Buscalan

The easiest way to get to Buscalan where Apo is residing is through package tours offered by travel agencies. They offer different types of tours including Sagada and Ifugao side trips. When you join a package tour, you can save time because they drive directly to Buscalan. It can also be more affordable since food is included in the cost. They charge from ₱3,500 to ₱7,500 per pax depending on the tour and side trips. There are plenty of them on Facebook and can easily be searched.

On the other hand, if you are not comfortable with traveling with a group then you can also opt for a DIY. If you are taking off from Manila, start in Victory Liner Kamias Terminal Cubao to go to Tabuk, Kalinga estimated bus ride is 10-12 hours. Upon reaching Tabuk head to St. Williams Cathedral and take the vans going directly to Buscalan. Another option is buses to Bontoc, Mt. Province then get off in Bugnay, Tinglayan. It may take 2-3 hours ride depending on the road condition because there are a lot of road constructions recently. In Bugnay, you will have to take the habal-habal for 15 minutes to the jump off point. This is where you will register and hire your local Tour Guide for the whole trip. After this process, you will hike the narrow cemented pathway for 30- 40 minutes to reach Buscalan.

Another route option would be Manila to Bontoc, Mountain Province via Coda bus. This journey may also take shorter than the Manila to Tabuk, Kalinga one. In Bontoc town proper take the jeepney or van to Kalinga and get off in Bugnay, Tinglayan. Travel time is 1-2 hours.

Accommodations in Buscalan

There are plenty of homestays in Buscalan as locals open their doors to travelers. Even when you don’t have advanced booking there is high chance that you will have a place to stay. Since I am an overthinker and I like planning ahead, I searched our homestay online. Facebook is really helpful tool in looking for your accommodation in advance. We stayed at Buscalan Tattoo Homestay with Bonfire and we got a decent room with balcony and rice terraces view. They also offered free rice and unlimited Buscalan coffee. Mind you, our guide is really nice enough to do the cooking for us which we didn’t expect. The standard rate of accommodation is ₱400 per person per night. Discounts for children and senior citizens also apply. There is no signal in Buscalan so you will be totally disconnected from the outside world but some accommodations have paid wifi. They charge per hour or per day.

*In case you want to book with them, you can contact them at 09983147338. You can also reach out to the owner’s Facebook Gaspar Laguinday. For Tour Guiding service contact Ms. Icel Banao at 09460835272.

The Best Time To Go

The Philippines have 3 seasons. Summer, from March to June, rainy season is in the months of July to October and cool-dry in November to February. Since Kalinga is in the northern part of the country expect that during the rainy season most of the typhoons will hit the province. This is actually the worst and the riskiest time because the roads in the Cordillera are landslide prone. You can also expect a lot of road construction that can slow down your travel. Summer is a good season because you will just deal with the heat but the best season is cool-dry specifically the month of January. This month is ideal because the holiday is just over and most people are already back to their work therefore there are chances of low number of visitors. Another one, the typhoon season is over so expect a smooth road trip to Kalinga. Lastly you can experience cold weather in the Philippines where the temperature can drop to 15° celcius or even lower which is not very common in a tropical country.  

For day of the week, it is highly recommended to go there on weekdays specifically Tuesdays and Wednesdays because there are not many visitors. We were there on a Friday and we still waited for the whole day to get our tattoos from Apo because people start to flock on Thursdays. So if you are visiting Sagada, Mt. Province or Banaue, Ifugao you might want to go visit Apo in the middle of the week.

Keep In Touch With The Locals

Traveling to Buscalan is still not common compare to traveling to more popular places in the Philippines like Cebu or Palawan. Going there is a bit tricky that is why it is advise to reach out to locals such as tour guides and homestay owners in advance. Before we packed our bags we watched a lot of vlogs and read blogs about traveling to Buscalan but we still ended up somewhat lost. One incident was that the vans going directly to Buscalan were not available during our travel. Good thing our homestay owner picked us up to the bus station and took us to a bus heading to Bontoc and instructed us to get down to Bugnay. Upon reaching Bugnay, we were meet by our guide that is already arranged by our contact person. That move made our journey smooth.

*I am posting our local guide and homestay host phone numbers just in case you are interested. You can also search them on Facebook. I highly recommend them.

The Travel Cost

I already mentioned earlier that package tour cost can be the most convenient and cheaper way to go. However for those DIY travelers here is the tentative breakdown of expenses.

  • Bus (Manila to Tabuk, Kalinga) : ₱1,200- ₱1,350 Roundtrip: ₱2,400- ₱2,700
  • Bus (Tabuk to Bugnay): ₱230  Roundtrip: ₱460
  • Habal- habal (Bugnay- Jump Off Point):  ₱150 Roundtrip:  ₱300
  • Tour Guide:  1,000-  1,500 (max 4 pax per guide)
  • Registration Fee:  100
  • Homestay:  400 per person a night
  • Food:  ₱100-150
  • 3 Meals:  300-  500
  • Gisi (thorn needle):  100
  • Kalinga Designed Tattoo:  500-  3,500 (depending on the design and size)
  • 3-dots Tattoo by Apo Whang Od:  ₱300
  • Homestay Wifi:  ₱40/ hour or  ₱300/ day

The total cost depends on how many people you are in a group and how long will you be staying. You can split the cost of the tour guide and food if you decide to cook in your homestay.

Sample Itinerary

For reference this is to give idea how much time you need to get a tattoo from Apo Whang-od.

  • Day 1
  • 7 p.m: Night bus to Tabuk, Kalinga
  • Day 2
  • 5 a.m: ETA in Tabuk
  • Breakfast and head to St. Williams Cathedral
  • 9 a.m: ETD of Bus to Bontoc passing by Bugnay
  • 11 a.m: ETA in Bugnay
  • Lunch and take the habal-habal to Jump off Point
  • 12:00 n.n: ETA to Jump Off Point, Register, Secure your number for when will you meet Apo Whang-od and hire a guide
  • 12:15 p.m: Start hike to Buscalan Village
  • 1 p.m: ETA in Buscalan, Pay Registration Fee and Check in Homestay
  • Wait for your number or your turn to get a tattoo from Apo.
  • While waiting you can shower and get your Kalinga Tattoo first
  • 6 p.m: Dinner, Socials and Bonfire
  • 9 p.m: Lights off
  • Day 3
  • 5:30 a.m: Sunrise at Bucalan Rice Terraces
  • 6:30 a.m: Cofee and Breakfast
  • Prepare to get a tattoo from Apo if you did not make it yesterday
  • If not, then prepare to leave and travel back to Manila or do side trip in Mountain Province and Banaue, Ifugao.

Cabongaoan Beach Changed My Mind About Pangasinan

When people ask me about my beach recommendations in the Philippines I always point to the beaches in the Visayas such as Cebu or Boracay. Having travelled almost all countries in the Southeast Asia, being born, raised and living in the Philippines, I am blessed to witness most of the greatest beaches I visited in my entire life. From beaches with stunning sunrise and sunset, fine white sand, crystal clear water to waves that are worth chasing for surfing adventure, it is safe to say that my standard when it comes to beaches are quite high. You can call me a beach snub if you will.

One of those places I usually ignore and decline for any travel invitation is Pangasinan. Ok! Wait, hear me out. I am from Benguet, a mountainous province in the Cordillera which is roughly 3- 4 hours away from Pangaisnan. When I was little the beaches in Pangasinan and La Union are the escape of most people from my hometown. I did visit some of them unfortunately I am not that impressed. Most probably because they are not white sand and there are no recreational activities being offered except swimming. (That is at least during the time I visited, I don’t know now.)

However, there’s this fine, almost white sand and very attractive beach that is located in a sleepy town of Burgos, Pangasinan and that is Cabongaoan beach. This laid back place is a neighbor to another stunning beaches like Colibra Island and the ever famous Death Pool. I heard Death Pool in the past from my friends and coworkers but I didn’t have the desire to check it out because I thought it is not worth the drive if I am just checking one place out. Until I got a travel invitation from friends that includes, Cabongaoan beach, Colibra Island and Death Pool. That’s the time I realized it must be worth it.

How To Get There

I searched online and there are no direct bus that goes to Burgos. It is either you drive there with your own car or cutting trip. You can start by taking the Victory Liner bus to Dagupan or Alaminos and hail another bus going to Burgos. As for out group we booked a joiners tour group with J-Explorer  Travel and Tours on Facebook. We opted for that because it is convenient. It was a last minute decision and adding the fact that we are aunties (lol) who can’t be bothered to plan for a DIY itinerary. Anyway, we left Baguio at 1:30 a.m and we arrived in Burgos before 6 a.m. It was a long-ass drive but it’s okay since the van is huge with enough leg room and comfortable seat to sleep. The cottages are booked in Villa Toledo where we had our breakfast and bathrooms.

Cabongaoan Beach

This beach is stretch of fine creamy white sand. There are numerous resorts here that you can book for overnight stay that ranges from Php 1,500-2,000 per night according to booking.com. If you book in the resorts along the beach you can have a stunning view of the sunset. If you are just there for a day trip some resorts also offer cottages that cost Php 500.

Aside from lounging on the beach and swimming, activities like Banana Boat and Crystal Kayak are also offered. They cost Php 150 per pax and Php 200 per pax for an hour respectively. Snorkeling gears are also available for rent for Php 150.

Colibra Island 

Forty five minutes boat ride lies this isolated small island of Colibra. The same as Cabongaoan, it also has fine creamy white sand beach and crystal clear water. Unlike Cabongaoan, Colibra is still undeveloped as it doesn’t have any cottages nor any activities to do except swimming. We took shelter under a tree and just took photos in “Welcome to Colibra Island” sign. The cost to get here is  Php 300-320 per pax depending on the capacity of the fishing boat. Some boats can accommodate 4 people some can take 5 plus Php 80 entrance fee.

Death Pool

The star of the trip. This rocky side of the beach is home to the ever famous death pool. It offers an amazing experience on how calm and extreme the waves can get in a split second so you better be careful dipping here if you are not a swimmer. It is also a few meters away from Mary Hill unfortunately it was closed when we were there so were not able to get a glimpse. To get here is a 10-15 minutes trek (depending on your speed) on a rocky side of Cabongaoan beach. Be warned to wear appropriate footwear because the path going there is very rocky. You need to climb some rocks and step on pointy edges that can injure your feet. I met a fellow resort goer who got tricked on walking barefoot and regretted it half way.

Sample Itinerary

This is the day trip itinerary given to us by the tour agency. You can always customize your activities depending on your preference.

1:30 am- Depart from Baguio to Pangasinan

6:00 a.m- Arrival in the resort (We opted for Villa Toledo)

6:30 a.m- 7:30 a.m- Breakfast

7:30-8:30 a.m- Death Pool and Mary Hill

8:30-9:30 a.m- Masanget Cove

9:30 am- 10:15 Travel to Colibra Island

10:15-12:00- Swimming, snorkeling in Colibra Island

12:00- 1:00- Back to the resort

1:00- 2:00- Lunch

2:00-4:00- Activities, Swimming, Crystal Kayak, Banana Boat

4:00-5:00- Shower

5:00- Depart to Baguio

 *Note: This can change depending on the condition of the waves, also if it is high tide or low tide.

Expenses:

Php 1800: Tour Agency (Includes transportation, Cottage, Environmental Fees and Coordinator Fee) Food not included. But the agency is very generous enough to bring a lot of food for sharing.

Php 300: Boat to Colibra Island

Php 80: Colibra Island Entrance Fee

Php 200: Crystal Kayak rent per pax (1 hour)

Php 150: Banana Boat per pax (1 hour)

Php 80: Mango Fruit Shake

Php 200: Pearl Necklace Souvenir

Php 600 (Estimated): Food

Total: Php 3,410

My Thoughts

As I said by the title, Cabongaoan beach changes my mind about Pangasinan. I think I have to swallow my words of saying the province is not worth it nor impressive. Forgive me. I believe there are more places like this that is yet to be discovered and gain more recognition for its beauty. With regards to the tour, since Colibra Island is not yet developed and there is nothing in there I would suggest to just skip it especially if you are already in Cabongaoan beach. What you get in Colibra already exist in Cabongaoan hence not worth the 45 minute boat ride.

TRAVELING ALONE FOR THE FIRST TIME? HERE’S WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW.

As the world continues to reopen for sure a lot of us are here for some travel revenge. Since we have been isolated for two years it is time to pursue those canceled flights and trips we have been saving up for. As I talked to my friends about their upcoming travel plans most of them want to push through their solo travels that have been on the back burner due to the past travel restrictions. Sounds exciting but before that here are some things you need to consider when you are going on a trip alone.

Be Prepared For Last Minute Changes And Cancellations

The world is gradually re-opening but there is still risk of Covid outbreak and it comes with sudden change of travel plans and quarantine requirements. I was a victim of this in the past year in which I have to halt three of my planned local travels because my destinations have to change their protocols and requirements few days before my arrival. One of them are in complete lockdown that non-essential travel and non-residents are not allowed to enter. So always make sure to reach out to local authorities or tourism offices of the places you’re visiting. Be updated with changes in their locality through their Facebook Page. Most of them are very responsive to inquiries.

Everything Will NOT Be Smooth Sailing

Yes! Probably it took you several weeks or even months and years to plan that weekend getaway or ultimate backpacking travel goal of your life but don’t expect that it will always go as planned (especially now). There are times that you encounter some problems starting on your check in to the airport, errors on your required documents during last minute of your departure or mishap in your itinerary. I am a planner myself but I have to say internal and external challenges throughout your travel can not be helped. As they say, it’s the journey that counts not the destination. So the best thing to do is to go with the flow and enjoy the experience on the road.  

Lower Your Expectation Even In Your Bucketlist

Reality strikes! too touristic though!

As the saying says “No Expectations, No Disappointments”. This applies to traveling too. If you heard of the term “Paris Syndrome” in which it is a sense of disappointment exhibited by tourists visiting Paris, who feel that the city was not they had expected. Just like other places we see on social media some of them just don’t live up to its hype. For instance they may look so serene in photos only to find out that they are stormed by hundreds of tourists in reality. So having no expectation will somewhat save you from hating the place in the end.

*I suggest to do some research about your dream place in advance to have an idea what awaits you. There are tons of useful blogs or vlogs on the internet and they offer the best travel guide.

You Will Be Asked A Lot Of Times Why You Are Traveling Alone

Although this question kind of quiet down these days as solo travel has been a thing and extremely popularized by travel bloggers, there are still people out there who are curious on why you are taking that journey alone. This usually comes from nosy people thinking you might be lonely on your own or concern citizens who associate danger with traveling by yourself. In case you are caught up in this situation and you are up for a conversation you can be honest by sharing them the joy of traveling alone but if you are introverted like me or just tired and want some time alone just tell them you are visiting someone and put those headset on. They will surely understand you want that peaceful space.

Being Overprepared Is Better Than Being Underprepared

Reality-check! You are traveling alone so it means you can only depend on yourself. Of course you might stumble upon some helpful people along the way but that is not always the case. Especially now that travels can still be uncertain therefore it is better to be extra. Some of these are preparing travel requirements and documents in multiple copies and including soft copies. Bringing extra cash for emergency or sudden unexpected payments. I advise not to put them all in your wallet, scatter them in your different belongings. Just in case you lost your bag or you got pickpocketed you still have some money to spare. If you travel overseas, I would highly suggest to go the extra mile and inform your bank about your overseas voyage because chances are some banks have put their securities to the maximum level. If they track inconsistent transaction with your credit and debit cards they might lock them and you wont be able to use them. This might be old news but a humble pen can save you some time with forms that you need to fill in. Water bottle can also take you a long way because there are free water refills in the airport and your accommodation. Also, it wont hurt to call or message your airline, bus company or accommodation in advance if there are sudden changes on their end.

You Are Not Totally Alone

In contrary to what I mentioned above, traveling alone doesn’t mean you are on your own the whole time.  You will certainly come across people who will be part of your journey. Chances are the person next to you on the bus or in the boarding gate is also going the same way as you. Your roommates in your hostel will invite you to hang out or check out places with them. The local people you are greeting will generously offer you free ride if they can. These people will fill in the gap you might feel especially when you are away from home.

There Are Good People Out There

Most of us must have been warned by our loved ones before we start our journey to look out for dangerous situation and bad people. I do agree with it however I also want to emphasize that sincere people exist everywhere from locals to fellow travelers. I encounter honest and hospitable locals who just want me to have the best experience of their place numerous times. Their recommendations are reliable and better than what you scavenge on the internet. They also go all the way to warn tourists of possible scams going on for them to avoid. The same is true with other visitors you meet.  They willingly lend their helping hand whenever you need. With everything going on in the world these days, it is normal to have trust issues and to never let our guard down but through traveling you will see the other side of people. The good side and you will be amazed by it.

Whether you are traveling on your own or with others always remember that it’s a big and beautiful world out there. It is diverse so always keep an open mind with people you meet, tradition you experience and culture you encounter. In that way, you will appreciate traveling more and make out the most of your journey.

MT. PULAG: THE FIRST HIKE AFTER TWO YEARS OF ISOLATION

Hooh! Finally! Yes, just like what the title said, after two long years of isolation brought by travel restrictions due to Covid 19. I finally got to wear my hiking attire and carry my travel gears again. As the restriction eases in my hometown Benguet, I got an invitation from my long time friends and hike partners, Team Ladaw to go on a weekend overnight hike to Mt. Pulag.

Mt. Pulag, branded as The Playground of the Gods has an elevation of 2,926 masl and tagged as the third highest mountain in the Philippines.  The mountain maintains its long reputation as one of the most captivating summit to hike with its stunning sea of clouds, captivating sunrise and mesmerizing landscape as you hike. A lot of hikers I met surely puts Mt. Pulag as their top favorite mountain they set foot on.  It is also every hiker’s bucketlist and on their return list if they get the chance.

The Journey: How To Get There

There are several trails to get to Mt. Pulag with different jump offs but the two most popular are the Akiki Trail and Ambangeg Trail. Akiki is the challenging longer trail that can take three days, while the latter is the easiest one which can be done within a day or overnight.

Since we have been isolated for a long time and none of us have any training prior to the hike we opted to take the Ambangeg Trail. To save ourselves with any hassle we also choose to just go for joiners event with Mt. Pulag Akiki Trail on Facebook.

We left La Trinidad, Benguet at 8 am in the morning since there was no traffic we drove smoothly until we reached Amboklao Dam in Bokod at around 9:30 am. We took a break to enjoy the view of the dam and also for toilet break. (P.s. You can do boating activity in Ambokalo dam, if you have time to spare.)

We continued to drive until we reached Ambangeg Daclan to have our medical check up. Since 2015, the DENR requires all hikers to Mt. Pulag to secure medical certificate stating they are fit to hike. You can get your medical certificate to any clinic and hospital of your choice but as for us we didn’t have the time to acquire one so we got it from a local clinic, JB Medical Clinic. The consultation and certificate cost Php 130.

We carried on our journey to Mt. Pulag National Park Protected Area Office in which our medical certificates, vaccination cards and valid IDs are collected. We were also asked to watched a 15-minute video about the Dos and Don’ts  when hiking in Mt. Pulag as part of our orientation. After that, we were off to Ranger Station also know as Camp 1 which serves as our jump off point.

Camp 1 (Jump Off)

The Ranger Station is a residential area and can be reached thru any mode of transportation. It is located around 2,400 masl so YES, this hike is pretty chill. Some hikers in Camp 1 can opt to set up a tent or get accommodation in homestays. Since it is a community area you can spot some sari sari stores to eat and hang out with other hikers. Most hikers spend the night here before going up the summit at around 1 am just to be on time for the sunrise.

As for our team, we opted to camp out in Camp 2 which is around two hours hike up from Camp 1. We honestly find Camp 1 a bit too chill for our liking and crowded with other hikers so we want to space out plus we can have less hectic call time the next morning.

Camp 2

Camp 2 is the midpoint from Camp 1 to the summit. Hikers usually set up their tents here. It has toilet although don’t expect too much of it and a cabin built for those who don’t have tent. I personally find the hike from Camp 1 to Camp 2 somewhat the most difficult part of this hike especially when you start in the middle of the day since the sun will be quite harsh. It is mostly ascending but not assault so for us who haven’t exercise for a while it is quite a struggle. The view is nice. Most of the trail is shaded on the latter part of the hike and there’s a small mossy forest  in between. The pathways are well made and safe.

Tower Site

If you stay at Camp 2 the call time for the sunrise in the summit is usually 3 am. However, when we spoke to locals and our guide. They unanimously advise us to witness the sunrise in Tower Site for a sure view of the sea of clouds.  The hike going up to the Tower Site only takes 30 minutes so it means more time to sleep for us. Our call time is 4:30 am and going there is not difficult at all.  We’re glad we took their advice since the view of the sunrise above the sea of clouds didn’t disappoint.

Mt. Pulag Summit

After chasing the sunrise in Tower Site, we proceeded straight up to the Summit. The hike ascending to the peak can take 2 hours. It is easy and can be accomplished even just by a newbie hiker. It is open with no shades so just be wary of the harsh sun when you end up hiking until the mid day. The pathways are developed and very safe with no falling rocks, loose soil and assault areas. The views along the way are stunning. Out team really took the time to take a pause, appreciate and took photos of the landscape. When we reached the summit, we were greeted with cotton candy clouds above us, a bit of sea of clouds and other beautiful Benguet mountains. Dwarf bamboos are also present on the peak.

My Thoughts

Obviously, My Pulag is a must try experience. Although, some of my friends who have been there told me that I might not see the most stunning view of the mountain on my first hike because it took them numerous attempts before they could see the best view. I ended this laidback hike really contented with the scenery I witnessed.  I also appreciate our guide for setting our expectations straight and giving us tips to make the most out of our first hike. For someone whose been hiking for years the level of difficulty for me is 3 out of 10 and that contributed to the development of the national park because of the long standing popularity of the mountain.

Expenses

Mt. Pulag Akiki Trail Joiners Event: Php 3,100

Package Inclusions:

> Transportation (Baguio-Mt. Pulag Vice versa)

>  Park Fees (Entrance Fee, Guide Fee, Cultural and Camping Fee)

> 3 Meals (Dinner, Breakfast and Lunch)

> Coordinator’s Fee

> Homestay/ Tent

Porter Fee: Php 1,750

Shout out to Team Ladaw and Mt. Pulag Akiki Trail for making this post possible.

FROM A TRAVELER TO HOMEBODY: WHY I’M NOT TRAVELING IN 2021

Year 2021 is a brand new year and a new beginning. As we wave goodbye to 2020 A.K.A the worst year of our lives, a ray of hope welcomes us because of the creation of the new vaccine for Covid-19 virus. Although many people are skeptical about it  the others are looking forward to it because it can be the key for us to go back to our old lives. But, is it or is it just another extension of 2020? Whether 2021 is a good beginning, I already made up my mind not to travel this year and here’s why.

Things Are So Uncertain

The roll out of the vaccines should give us new hope for the light at the end of the tunnel but it seems the opposite of what we are expecting. With the mutation of new variants from late last year, the whole world starts to shut down again. From flight bans to border restrictions, it is just too risky to book a flight or to even step outside.

Traveling these days is just too much work.

Before, I used to be excited to plan my DIY travel. There’s just a thrill within me while working on my itinerary, booking my flights and searching for my accommodation online but now I get so frustrated going through all the requirements in order leave my small town and to be allowed to enter a certain destination. From securing travel authority and medical clearance, to taking swab test, it is just too much of a hassle for me and I’m not cool with that.

I’m not Up For Any Adventures

Being locked up at home with no travel for a year except in the grocery store made me a very lazy ass. I already have a routine that I am used of and I don’t think I’m quitting them in no time. Although I miss traveling so much especially when I look back at my old photos, I can’t see myself roaming around especially with a threat of being infected is everywhere. I will wait for the time when I can freely wander so for now I will stay home and watch Netflix.

I’m Too Cheap to Willingly Pay for the Requirements

I miss the old times when I used to spend a very little amount of money to have a weekend getaway. In the past I can work on the cheapest budget I have and have loads of fun exploring places. This time, it’s the opposite. Aside from the money you have to shell out for the anti-gen test, you also need to book in an accredited hotel with a private room which is not my jam. The prices of bus fare and other public transportation doubles too plus the humongous amount of cash you have to allocate for travel insurance. These actually made me realize how poor I am to be able to afford to travel these days.

I’m not ready for any “What ifs’.”

I associate what ifs’ with regrets. As I mentioned, everything is just so uncertain this time. The borders might be open now but probably might not be the next days. Flights may be available now but could be cancelled the last minute. Your accommodations might be booked already but you can be prohibited from entering your destination when you get there. The guidelines for traveling changes so often and I just don’t want to go through the hassle of last minute surprises. I’m not good at dealing with those kinds of situation.

Someone told me that this pandemic might stay until 2024. I came across another article mentioning we’ll go through this for 7 years and it might be impossible to go back to our old lives. These things sound pessimistic and alarming but I am hoping and praying for a better situation in the near future so we can go on adventures again.

MUSIC VIDEOS THAT WILL MAKE YOU WISH YOU ARE TRAVELING RIGHT NOW!

With most of us still on quarantine we can’t help but to wish to be on holiday somewhere except our house. Given the situation all we can do for now is to reminisce the old days when we used to have all the freedom to be anywhere in the world. As we wait and hope for this pandemic to be over, here are the good old music and their videos to enjoy and remind us how traveling used to be.

I Got U by Duke Dumont ft. Jax Jones

This music video will remind us how good life was before pandemic happened. How a lot of us are wishing to escape that city life and spend holidays in the tropics. With the world shut down and border restrictions, how we wish we have that VR giving us a close to reality experience of the tropics. Resort living, white sand beach, swimming in a clear blue water and sipping cocktails on beach parties, you would wish you are in Bangkok and Phuket, Thailand right now where it was shot.

Perfect Strangers by Jonas Blue ft. JP Cooper

This is literally a story of travel romance a lot of backpackers can relate to. When a man and a woman traveling on their own cross paths, and ended up being together or maybe just another casual travel fling. As travelers, we can totally relate to the music video scenes where a traveller got attracted to a fellow traveler at first sight. Keep on bumping on the same stranger in different places and having mutual connection that usually ends up hitting it off together. Watching the music video makes me miss dating on the road such as a day hike, a motorbike city tour or simply just watching the sunset together by the beach. Whether it’s a casual travel fling or start of something serious, you can never deny that travel date is the best date ever.

Guns and Roses by Helly Luv & Ardian Bujupi

The first impression I got in this Kurdish song basing on the title is drugs and killing. (Please don’t come after me for thinking that way.) Thanks to Google translator and the English part of the song I came to understand it’s about working hard and luxury living. However the best thing that hooks me into the music video of this song is the location. It features fast cars in the desert, sailing in luxury yacht and simply enjoying life. This song can be an inspiration to hustle now and enjoy our travels later when everything is back to old normal.

Tropical Love by Nadro and Timmy Commerford

The lyric of this song is a message for those who want to travel long term, book one way ticket and never look back. Aside from the lyrics the views in its music video are also spectacular. Beaches, safaris, waterfalls plus a drone shot of Table Mountain in South Africa. Remember the time when you were waking up with the view from a villa in Bali Indonesia? The next thing you know you are catching a flight to South America. Ahhh, The good old days!

Sweet Chin Music by Kid Ink

This 3-minute track features Kid Ink rapping in the bustling city of Bangkok showing the busy streets filled with tuktuks, temples and hustling people.

If Life Is Too Short (Cover) by Music Travel Love

A cover song of the original 90’s soundtrack of The Mofats by Music Travel Love features the foggy view of the Pu Chi Fa Mountain in Chang Rai, Thailand. The mountain is well known for many tourists catching the glimpse of the sea mist at dawn. If you are on a hunt for acoustic versions of songs in the 90’s with top notch sceneries on their background check more of Music Travel Love videos on YouTube.

Lean On by Major Lazer & DJ Snake Feat. MØ

The 18th most viewed video on YouTube is a track shot in the beautiful state of Maharashtra, India. Although some scenes were filmed in the Golden Hall of Stockholm City Hall, the musicians showcased their modernized Bollywood dance. Major Lazer mentioned that they were always been a culture mash up and to them, India feels like some kind of special creature with one foot in history and one firmly in the future.

Came Here For Love by Sigala, Ella Eyre

Sigala and Ella Eyre released this song in 2017 and it is still on my playlist up to this date. The song says “I came here for love.” And for the love of traveling we will surely appreciate the music video that was filmed in the colorful houses of Las Palmitas neighborhood in Pachuca, México. It will remind us of the other colorful neighborhood in South America such as the Favela in Brazil and the hillside houses in Lima, Peru.

This Girl by Kungs vs Cookin’ on 3 Burners

The remix of this track has the catchiest beat of all. I don’t remember anyone not liking this song when I introduced it to them way back years ago. The music video shows a boy and girl meeting on a cruise ship then later became a couple. When the ship reached the shore, they explored the land, coming across lakes and hills. They later discovered a cave and begin dancing in the cave over a bonfire. It shows another travel fling but this time focused on young flame. Well, it can’t be helped and a lot of travelers are aware of that. The stunning place is the Greek island of Milos, in the Cyclades.

Nobody to Love by Sigma

Although the lyric of the song is repetitive, the music video exhibits a fresh view of Cape Town in South Africa. It shows two girls on a road trip enjoying life and some African dancing talent. The message of the song is probably when you got nobody to love go grab your bff and hit the road together.

*Bonus: If you are into EDM check out EDM Crusher on YouTube. The channel has great travel music video uploads.

I QUIT SOCIAL MEDIA AMIDST PANDEMIC AND HERE’S WHAT HAPPENED.

Social media has been a part of most of us since its birth in 2009. With them installed in our smartphone we can easily access up-to-date information, see people’s posts and share things about our lives. It made us keep up with each other’s lives even from far distance. However with the outbreak of the COVID-19 virus it becomes an overwhelming information overload from heartbreaking news, political controversy to personal rants. Although there are still positive posts available to lighten up the day, they are easily buried when an update about the virus is uploaded.

WHY I QUIT?

As of this writing I haven’t been on social media for more than 5 months already. Since the outbreak in March social media became a toxic place to check in and unfortunately I also became that toxic person who complains about the situation. For months being locked up at home and still having an alarming rise of positive cases, I can’t help but to put my frustrations on social media. For me the more increase in positive cases means the longer it takes for us to get out from this dark tunnel we are stuck in. I became very opinionated in a bad way constantly battling with people I don’t even know on the comments section of news articles. Things got worse for me when I see my friends’ posts overseas back in June when they can already do non-essential travels domestically and nearby countries because the borders are already open for them. I know that FOMO should not be present in this time of pandemic but as much as I am happy for them doing fine and having the freedom to roam, I find myself pitiful for not being able to step outside. My mental well-being and productivity was affected badly. I realized I have to do something about it so I quit.

HOW I QUIT?

I thoughtfully consider a lot of things before quitting such as where to get updates and information. Social media is the fastest and most accessible source of up-to-date information. I still want to be informed so I watch news on T.V and read articles that appear on my Google app. I also subscribed to a local news blog in my hometown that regularly post announcements from the mayor’s office and regional Inter-Agency Task Force (IATF) including scheduled power interruptions.  

For the moment of truth, I don’t want to just disappear online leaving my friends wondering what happened to me so I posted both on my Facebook and InstaGram that I will be taking a break from social media. I apologized in advance for any messages that I can’t read in the future but I assure them that they can reach me thru my phone number. Right after that I uninstalled all my social media accounts including Messenger and Whatsapp. I decided to include my messaging apps to experience living offline more.

WHAT HAPPENED?

CONSTANT DEBATE WHETHER TO GO BACK TO SOCIAL MEDIA OR NOT

The first two weeks is a continuous argument within me if I should re-install and log in to my accounts again. I am worried if I am getting enough information or I am missing out with important ones. However, when a close friend mentioned how stressful it is to open Facebook. I figured out I am on the right track.

I LOGGED IN TWICE

I had two “cheat days” on my social media cut back. On Day 6 and 24, my two close friends from overseas were having their birthdays. I re-installed my InstaGram to send them my best birthday wishes since it is the only way we can connect. Upon receiving their replies, I immediately uninstall my account again. That way, I can save myself from any post that can trigger me because to be honest I am not yet confident that I am mentally and emotionally stable from what is happening at that time.

I GOT THINGS DONE

For a short amount of time, I was able to have my anti-flu vaccine, visit my dentist and take my glasses to my ophthalmologist. These are essential appointments I put in the back burner believing I don’t have time. But the truth is, I got distracted with the notifications that appear on my screen. I spend hours and hours browsing on social media starting when I woke up and in between my daily task not realizing how much time was already wasted.  When I quit, I got more time for meaningful task to be done and build productive routine.

MY PHONE BATTERY LASTED LONGER

During my social media detox the main function of my phone is an alarm clock for work. I still receive messages from work thru skype and e-mails so I use it to communicate with my boss and some friends. I also use it to read news from Google and watch YouTube videos on my free time at work. Surprisingly, I only charge my phone once in 2 days. I never expected my phone battery to last that long especially in the past when I used to live for social media I need to plug my phone twice a day and carry a powerbank everywhere.

I WATCHED TV A LOT

Since I started working in college, I was too busy to sit down and watch T.V. I was not a T.V- person for 10 years now. In the age of social media, we can say that T.V is not a necessity because we can now access everything on the internet and even news can now go live on Facebook or YouTube. But when I decided to live offline the only entertainment I have is the television in our living room. I watched Asian dramas dubbed in Tagalog and Filipino dramas, which I keep track of every episode. I also regularly turn on the T.V at noon to watch a noon time show that features inspiring stories of people in this time of pandemic. I discovered how I like to watch more on bigger screen than the small one on my phone.

I READ A TON OF BOOKS

I’m a reader. I grew up reading encyclopedias, dictionaries and Guiness World of Book Records. I also have a good amount of book sitting on my shelves that were hand me down by my friends and family. However when social media took over my life, they end up collecting dust and never touched simply because I prefer to read blogs on social media plus I  became more drawn into videos. When I left social media for a while, I got fascinated how fast I am at reading. I was able to finish 3 books in a month and go through all those books I have. I also became a regular customer of a Book Sale store near my place. Something I love about reading print materials is it takes me to a different world where I don’t have to worry on what is going on. I just have to go with the flow with the story I am reading and just look forward to the ending. It helps me reduce my stress and anxiety.

I RENOVATED MY PLACE

On the second month of my journey, I got inspired with all the videos of room make overs and house tours that pops on my YouTube feed. I decided to go all in and change the aesthetic of our house especially my room. For the past years, I never paid attention to my place simply because I have been constantly traveling most of the time and was never at home. With the community quarantine that is still going, I am forced to stay at home so I witnessed how our house was falling apart. With social media out of the way, I have more free time to nitpick the things to be done at home including the smallest details that needed repair. I used my travel fund to convert my old room into a functional bedroom and work space. I never thought that I have a creative side when I handed my design to the contractor for the renovation. This is by far the most productive thing I did during the whole quarantine.

I FOUND CLEANING TO BE VERY THERAPEUTIC

I am a clean and organized person to begin with but throughout this journey, I got myself into doing more household chores. I doubled the amount of housework I do with my excess time. I cleared and dusted every corner of our house and regularly cleaned the bathroom twice a week. Cleaning became my daily home workout. I felt better after getting rid of dirt. It also made me feel accomplished when I go around the house with dry and dust-free counters, tables and floors. This task is my escape from negativity of what was going on because it made me focused on making my place better without thinking of anything else.

THE RESULT

When I re-installed my accounts including my messaging apps my messages was blown by my friends who showed their concern for not hearing anything from me for quite some time. Although I’m better at handling things I saw online now I will still not be active and I will continue to log out from time to time to make way to more productive stuff and projects I am working on. Gladly, my absence in social media made me built a productive routine that I religiously follow. There is something peaceful about not knowing anything. My social media detox made me realize a lot of things. Social media is not bad at all. It is just how I dealt with it in the past. Unfortunately, I handled the things I saw badly. I focused more on the negative side than the positivity it brings. I let my insecurity won over other things I should be grateful of such as staying healthy and still having a job. Along the way, I had deep thoughts and evaluated my relationship with social media. I figured that I am okay without them. I can totally get by.  However, I also miss so many things on social media. I miss seeing and liking my friends’ posts. I miss keeping up with them. It felt so weird when I logged in again for the first time in many months. I was totally clueless of what happened to them especially when two of my friends got married and I wasn’t able to congratulate them. I started reaching out again to them although I am not as active as before. I also wanted to go back to reading useful articles about travels and watching entertaining videos. I realized that the comment section is a huge trigger to me especially when it comes to controversial news so I decided to quit reading and leaving comments on any articles to make my life at peace and also to save my time. These days whenever I see a controversial articles I just skip it to save me a lot of energy and remain unbothered.

My Life Could Be Short: How Terminal Illness in my Family Inspire me to Travel More

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“Enough!” I usually get this comment when people around me learn that I’m packing my things to leave our small town to travel again. My sister would even spill the tea to me about our neighbors and family friends including my older brothers saying that my lifestyle is such a waste of money. I got used to all of that and just try to understand since I am raised in a culture and environment where young people like me are getting a career, building their own houses and starting their own family so I just shrug them all off. I used to think like that too before I discovered my love for traveling.

I first got into traveling to break that boring work, party routine I have in my early 20’s. I booked a long weekend getaway to Thailand that turned out to be so much fun. There were many spontaneous things that happened including life changing experiences. Traveling opened my eyes and changed my perspective in many different ways. I learned a lot of things I never had in 4 corners of a classroom. I got so much to be thankful because of traveling. I matured, became open minded, more accepting and totally became non-judgmental.  But I must say I have bigger reason why I am continuously traveling.

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This is something personal and actually the main reason why I’m traveling none-stop. I don’t have good genes to begin with and three of my immediate family passed away due to terminal illness. With that, I decided to invest in two things my health and experiences on the road.

In May 1991 I was just 5 months old when my father passed away because of liver cancer. I never got the chance to meet him but I heard from my sibling that he is a kind-heart man with alcohol problems. In 2009, I just started university when my loving mother left me so I became an orphan. The same with my father, she died due to liver cancer. She’s not alcoholic but they said that her mother also died in terminal sickness. It is probably some sort of genes. The year 2015, I just got into traveling when my 37-year old sister finally said goodbye after 8 months of battling with lupus. She’s a very health conscious kind of person. She neither smoked nor drank and she loved vegetables. It just happened that she’s born with that illness.

Every time I go to doctors to get different vaccines for protection against diseases and boast my immune system, they ask me why I want to get this vaccine. I always mention to them that both of my parents died in cancer. They don’t ask any follow up question but instead they usually end up giving me recommendation for another vaccine. Recently I just finished my Cervical Cancer vaccine one of my gynecologists suggested me to get an MMR vaccine while the other wants me to get IPV also known as Polio vaccine.

Before my sister’s death, both of my parents live until their 60’s. I thought I might live that long and that’s enough for me to graduate from university, get a stable job, build a house and start a new family. It’s a very typical life routine. However because of this, I realized that my life might not be as long as my parents. As a result I started to invest in experience through traveling because if the heaven up above decide to just give me a short life at least I filled it with a lot of memories and worthwhile experiences.